I can't believe it! I am home and have been for a week now! It's been a great week but very busy. I got back into my kitchen on Tuesday and Wednesday to bake and cook again which made me feel excellent. I also got to spend the weekend at my dad and step-mom's house with my husband and puppy dogs. I also was so happy to get back to our church on Sunday. Honestly, it has been overwhelming at times, especially when I first got home. It is definitely a transition. But there is a lot going on right now and a lot coming up. So I figure now is time for some updates...
On being home... So I have already mentioned being home is somewhat overwhelming. Generally speaking, I try not to think about things too much. I still have dreams that I am still in Afghanistan but that is pretty normal. I am on a good sleep schedule, though I crash at the end of the day (always before 10, usually before 9) and wake up every day between 0530 and 0630. But I am enjoying my time at home and love being back in my kitchen. I also absolutely love my brand new car. I tend to feel more exhausted than before I left, but I am sure that will turn.
On Lean Six Sigma... it has come to a screeching halt. I have tried contacting my instructor at least three times since leaving Afghanistan and haven't heard anything back. So, I am hoping that some doors might open on the opportunity, but I have no clue what is going to happen and it is really frustrating.
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| Our new kitchen cabinets... sitting in our garage. |
On current projects... While I was gone, one of our kitchen cabinets sort of fell from the wall. So, as I have mentioned before, we are redoing the kitchen. Because of the wood floors, I plan on painting the cabinets instead of staining them. And I think we are going to do a tile counter top. But so far, we have just bought the new cabinets, dishwasher and microwave. The plan is to try to get everything done before thanksgiving. We are also getting our landscaping in the backyard done this week and I worked on our front yard a little bit last week. I am hoping to clear the rest of the weeds and leaves in the front yard this week as well (maybe even the clean the gutters). Early next year we are going to put up the green house and plant some bushes in the yard- but one thing at a time.
On being married... I forgot how much I truly enjoy my husband's company. It might seem weird, but there seems to be lots of little things that I forgot. It feels so good to be back home with my best friend. He took a couple of days off with me when I first got home. I thought it would be weird being with him all the time, but it really hasn't been. If anything, I hate it when he isn't around. In the next few weeks, we are going to start planning out our time and what our new schedule is going to look like and I am really excited about that. We are also trying to plan some personal goals for ourselves as a family and how we want to serve in our church, community, work and social lives.
On self-study... Kevin and I are nearly done with our reading through the bible chronologically study. We should be done in less than two weeks. After we finish, I plan on reading through the new testament focusing on verses that pertain to love (God's love for us, our love for him and our love for each other). On top of that, Kevin and I are going to start reading "100 days to intimacy" which is a book recommended to us by some in our church. We are hoping this will help us to communicate well and reconnect as we make this next transition. Plus, we want to be intentional in focusing on our marriage and family.
So yeah, there has been a lot going on in just a week and there is so much more not said. But I will continue to give periodic updates as we continue to work on our new (feeling) life together. (And here's a video link from me seeing my puppies for the first time:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mYUCsxwKxtU)
